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	<title>Comments on: What exactly am I supposed to do?</title>
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	<description>Crunky! This is a blog about an English teacher living in South Korea.</description>
	<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 03:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: ::A Geek in Korea:: &#187; Blog Archive &#187; This is a bad joke.</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-3631</link>
		<dc:creator>::A Geek in Korea:: &#187; Blog Archive &#187; This is a bad joke.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 13:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] is something my class is used to, because another student in class, Test Anxiety Boy, usually cries once a week for some period of time in class. The student crying today was Test [...]</description>
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		<title>By: ::A Geek in Korea:: &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Does this make me Dick Cheney?</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-3367</link>
		<dc:creator>::A Geek in Korea:: &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Does this make me Dick Cheney?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 12:06:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I&#8217;ll never forget seeing a student racked with test anxiety, fearful he would get hit by his mother for getting a test... Do I want all of my students to turn into neurotic headcases? Hell no. Do I want them to study? Of [...]</description>
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		<title>By: ::A Geek in Korea:: &#187; Blog Archive &#187; It really didn&#8217;t matter, that stuff was going to be flying either way.</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-3126</link>
		<dc:creator>::A Geek in Korea:: &#187; Blog Archive &#187; It really didn&#8217;t matter, that stuff was going to be flying either way.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 14:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] girls hands shot up, and the boy who vomits in his mouth about getting test questions wrong also volunteered. While I was confident that even Test Anxiety Boy could get all these questions correct 100%, I [...]</description>
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		<title>By: John from Daejeon</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-2982</link>
		<dc:creator>John from Daejeon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 12:26:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, our teachers call as well, but they don't discuss real problems that the students may have with the parents.  No one wants to hear that their kids are bullies or may have a learning disorder, but how will these kids adapt to life in the working world and outside the nest if these problems aren't addressed as soon as possible?  Later on, it will just be a game of blaming the teachers, bosses, and society for the ills suffered by their children as they struggle in life.

I have few problems in the classroom thanks to our reward system (when did learning start needing to be induced with carrots?), but the bullies still shakedown the younger kids for money, snacks, and toys leaving them shaken and in tears quite often.  They are smart enough not to do most of it in the classrooms, or in front of the owners, so it happens in the stairwells, restrooms, and elevator.

A lot of these problems are caught on our classroom video cameras, but I think fear of lawsuits prevents a lot of good that could also be accomplished with the video footage.  Like I said earlier, we had a family do some serious damage at the school and terrorize the kids and teachers, and the footage is being used as collateral to keep them away.  I guess if it came out in a lawsuit, it could also damage the school's "face" or reputation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, our teachers call as well, but they don&#8217;t discuss real problems that the students may have with the parents.  No one wants to hear that their kids are bullies or may have a learning disorder, but how will these kids adapt to life in the working world and outside the nest if these problems aren&#8217;t addressed as soon as possible?  Later on, it will just be a game of blaming the teachers, bosses, and society for the ills suffered by their children as they struggle in life.</p>
<p>I have few problems in the classroom thanks to our reward system (when did learning start needing to be induced with carrots?), but the bullies still shakedown the younger kids for money, snacks, and toys leaving them shaken and in tears quite often.  They are smart enough not to do most of it in the classrooms, or in front of the owners, so it happens in the stairwells, restrooms, and elevator.</p>
<p>A lot of these problems are caught on our classroom video cameras, but I think fear of lawsuits prevents a lot of good that could also be accomplished with the video footage.  Like I said earlier, we had a family do some serious damage at the school and terrorize the kids and teachers, and the footage is being used as collateral to keep them away.  I guess if it came out in a lawsuit, it could also damage the school&#8217;s &#8220;face&#8221; or reputation.</p>
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		<title>By: torgodevil</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-2980</link>
		<dc:creator>torgodevil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 11:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Korean teachers in our school call all the students. We have a discipline system based on rewards we give for achievements in class. The kids use those points to purchase things online that are then delivered to the school. No homework? Didn't study? No rewards. 

This works well up until middle school. By this point students know their lives are hell, and want to do nothing but sleep in class. As long as you don't give them a hard time, they don't give you a hard time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Korean teachers in our school call all the students. We have a discipline system based on rewards we give for achievements in class. The kids use those points to purchase things online that are then delivered to the school. No homework? Didn&#8217;t study? No rewards. </p>
<p>This works well up until middle school. By this point students know their lives are hell, and want to do nothing but sleep in class. As long as you don&#8217;t give them a hard time, they don&#8217;t give you a hard time.</p>
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		<title>By: John from Daejeon</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-2979</link>
		<dc:creator>John from Daejeon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 10:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What do you do about bullies over here?  We have a couple of really bad problem kids, but the Korean teachers refuse to talk to the parents because it might cause the parents to lose "face."  I don't know how parents might ever find out that their kid is a bully, or others that have kids that may suffer from an easily remedied learning disorder, if teachers can't talk to parents other than to give glowing report cards even when the child can't count, read, or write.

It was rough for me dealing with these subjects back home in the states, but here I feel awful that my hands are tied and not being able to do anything about these situations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you do about bullies over here?  We have a couple of really bad problem kids, but the Korean teachers refuse to talk to the parents because it might cause the parents to lose &#8220;face.&#8221;  I don&#8217;t know how parents might ever find out that their kid is a bully, or others that have kids that may suffer from an easily remedied learning disorder, if teachers can&#8217;t talk to parents other than to give glowing report cards even when the child can&#8217;t count, read, or write.</p>
<p>It was rough for me dealing with these subjects back home in the states, but here I feel awful that my hands are tied and not being able to do anything about these situations.</p>
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		<title>By: ZenKimchi &#187; Nervous Breakdown and Vomiting from a Nine-year-old</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-2976</link>
		<dc:creator>ZenKimchi &#187; Nervous Breakdown and Vomiting from a Nine-year-old</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 04:06:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] who sounds pretty normal except his abnormal fear of tests.  He is so scared of tests that he curls up in fetal positions and cries before them.  If he doesn&#8217;t make a perfect score he runs out of the classroom and [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] who sounds pretty normal except his abnormal fear of tests.  He is so scared of tests that he curls up in fetal positions and cries before them.  If he doesn&#8217;t make a perfect score he runs out of the classroom and [...]</p>
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		<title>By: ZenKimchi &#187; Nervous Breakdown and Vomiting from a Nine-year-old</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-2977</link>
		<dc:creator>ZenKimchi &#187; Nervous Breakdown and Vomiting from a Nine-year-old</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 04:06:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] who sounds pretty normal except his abnormal fear of tests.  He is so scared of tests that he curls up in fetal positions and cries before them.  If he doesn&#8217;t make a perfect score he runs out of the classroom and [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] who sounds pretty normal except his abnormal fear of tests.  He is so scared of tests that he curls up in fetal positions and cries before them.  If he doesn&#8217;t make a perfect score he runs out of the classroom and [...]</p>
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		<title>By: torgodevil</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-2971</link>
		<dc:creator>torgodevil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 23:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yikes. That's CRAZY. I've never had any sort of experience like that with parents. That's NUTS.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yikes. That&#8217;s CRAZY. I&#8217;ve never had any sort of experience like that with parents. That&#8217;s NUTS.</p>
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		<title>By: John from Daejeon</title>
		<link>http://blog.torgodevil.com/archives/721#comment-2970</link>
		<dc:creator>John from Daejeon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 23:26:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'd been here over 15 months with nothing but good experiences and things to say about South Korea, until this unfortunate situation happened at my school.  My boss was being badly assaulted by a student's family members, and the franchise officials refused to call the police.  They would not even witness the altercation and instead cowered in a back room without even protecting the children.  

My involvement happened when I stepped in between an irate adult male who was screaming and cussing at a child after tossing furniture and other items around the classrooms.  I did not know about my lack of status and rights here had I been involved in the fight until later that evening when I was advised by many (including a lawyer) to leave before things get worse.  This I could not do.  My boss and his family are some of my best friends now, and my leaving was what this family wanted.  To see the school suffer and close.  Just the other day, one of these family members physically (bodily) ran into me as hard as they could to try and get a rise out of me.  I grabbed the students I had been talking to in the street and ushered them quickly upstairs into our office and away from the situation.

Before this happened, I was planning to stick around for at least three years, but now I will try and finish out my second year and leave now knowing just how close I came to ending up in jail through no fault of my own.  

If I had known about the judicial process in this country beforehand, I probably would not have come here.  Finding out about it in this fashion has really made me sick, as has the ongoing situation involving this family.  At least now, things have calmed down inside the school as the family knows that they will be sued (the great deterrent) if they return, but this doesn't keep them from still harassing the kids and teachers in the street in front of the school.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d been here over 15 months with nothing but good experiences and things to say about South Korea, until this unfortunate situation happened at my school.  My boss was being badly assaulted by a student&#8217;s family members, and the franchise officials refused to call the police.  They would not even witness the altercation and instead cowered in a back room without even protecting the children.  </p>
<p>My involvement happened when I stepped in between an irate adult male who was screaming and cussing at a child after tossing furniture and other items around the classrooms.  I did not know about my lack of status and rights here had I been involved in the fight until later that evening when I was advised by many (including a lawyer) to leave before things get worse.  This I could not do.  My boss and his family are some of my best friends now, and my leaving was what this family wanted.  To see the school suffer and close.  Just the other day, one of these family members physically (bodily) ran into me as hard as they could to try and get a rise out of me.  I grabbed the students I had been talking to in the street and ushered them quickly upstairs into our office and away from the situation.</p>
<p>Before this happened, I was planning to stick around for at least three years, but now I will try and finish out my second year and leave now knowing just how close I came to ending up in jail through no fault of my own.  </p>
<p>If I had known about the judicial process in this country beforehand, I probably would not have come here.  Finding out about it in this fashion has really made me sick, as has the ongoing situation involving this family.  At least now, things have calmed down inside the school as the family knows that they will be sued (the great deterrent) if they return, but this doesn&#8217;t keep them from still harassing the kids and teachers in the street in front of the school.</p>
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